MERRI MACARTNEY
Be Fully Alive
Author and Speaker
Intergenerational Care
In many countries, aging populations and busy families are creating a unique challenge: how can we care for both children and seniors in a way that’s enriching and sustainable? One innovative solution that has emerged is intergenerational care – mixing children and senior care in the same facility. The approach is gaining attention worldwide, especially in countries like Japan, the Netherlands, and the United States.
Japan is a leader in the field, largely because it faces one of the fastest-aging populations in the world alongside low birth rates. To tackle both issues, some Japanese facilities now combine daycare for children with day programs for seniors.
Children and seniors share the same space, engaging in activities like storytelling, arts and crafts, singing and even shared meals. The benefits are significant. Seniors report feeling more socially connected, active and mentally engaged. Children develop communication skills and appreciation of older generations. The combined programs make better use of staff and space making them an efficient solution for communities with limited resources.
In the Netherlands, the approach takes a slightly different form: intergenerational living. Some retirement homes invite university students or young families to live on-site, often in exchange for reduced rent. In return, they spend time interacting with senior residents. Daily activities might include casual conversation, helping with small tasks or participating in social events. Although this is less structured than Japan’s model, this system fosters meaningful relationships between generations. Seniors feel less alone, students gain mentorship and communities become more connected overall.
The United States has tried and tested intergenerational care through shared daycare centers. The facilities have both adult day care programs and childcare in the same location. Children and seniors participate in music sessions, exercise activities, storytelling and other group related programs. While still not widespread, these initiatives have proven to improve social skills in children and reduce loneliness in seniors.
In all these adaptations, the benefits go beyond companionship. Intergenerational programs support emotional well-being, promote active lifestyles and create stronger connections within the community. Seniors are less lonely and get more stimulation, while children gain social skills, patience and natural respect for elders. Of course, the shared facilities and staff help make care more efficient and cost effective.
This model isn’t without challenges. Programs must be carefully managed to ensure safety, address health concerns and monitor noise levels. There must also be value and meaning for all, not just simply coexisting in the same space.
These programs highlight a new way of thinking about aging and childcare. Rather than separating age groups, they bring them together, creating mutual benefits and connected communities. Countries like Japan, the Netherlands and the United States are showing that with careful planning and creativity, it’s possible to nurture both the youngest and the oldest members of society under one roof.
As the word faces both aging populations and challenging family needs, intergenerational care may become a more important model – one where generations support each other, learn from each other and thrive together.

MERRI MACARTNEY The famous author of the book : “Don’t Die Before You’re Dead”